Things were going so well with the Del Prado house. I made a beautiful kitchen floor, which I will show you in a future post. Then I realized that it was time to decide on paint colours and a colour scheme for the house. I want light and airy, but still loosely Victorian. In this house, I want harmony, none of that fruit salad effect where room colours clash.
Research wasn't helpful:
A housepainter in 1893 observed, “Some people want their houses pure
white throughout, while others have them painted as dark as possible,
and some peculiar combinations of color are often selected, but we never
dare object or we might lose the job.”
From Wikipedia:
The choice of paint color on the walls in Victorian homes was said to be
based on the use of the room. Hallways that were in the entry hall and
the stair halls were painted a somber gray so as not to compete with the
surrounding rooms. ... There was a
favored tripartite wall that included a dado or wainscoting at the bottom, a field in the middle and a frieze or cornice at the top.
So the walls could be light or dark, one colour or three, patterns or plain, textured or smooth.
No help at all.
Elga suggested that I imagine living in the house, and paint accordingly. At this time of my life, with deteriorating eyesight and an aversion to dusting, I want everything gleaming white, with no dark corners, and no clutter whatsoever. Not going to fly in a Victorian setting, I'm afraid.
I dithered for days without touching the house. Finally I took out some paint and just started dabbing the rooms in a test colour to see how it looked. Ivory in the kitchen, and grey in the hall.
It looked awful.
The ivory walls in the kitchen were cat pee yellow.
Grey made the hall appear narrow and bleak, prison corridors come to mind.
Very discouraging. Next I researched wallpaper possibilities. I was in the middle of printing a test page when the printer broke down. Reason abandoned me, and I succumbed to a decline that would have left a Victorian lady swooning on her chaise lounge. Except that I did it much more dramatically. Pounding of the printer (which didn't help), followed by a full scale weeping tantrum that lasted a day. The printer was the last straw in a whole bale of things that went wrong lately. Now I'm in what
Nancy calls 'a funk'. I don't have any creative energy. I'm stuck.
Fortunately it's happened to me so many times that I recognize where I'm at straight away. It's not the dollhouse's fault, or the printer. One comes to this place when you let go of your inner calm. I've let myself be overwhelmed.
I've learnt some coping mechanisms along the way. Of the many I've tried, these are the ones that give the best results. I'm sharing them in case you need them too :-)
1. Step away.
Whether it's physically walking away, or notching down the emotions around a situation, distancing yourself gives better perspective.
2. Do something different.
Tidy a cupboard or clean the oven. Keeping your hands busy will give your subconscious mind time to work things out.
3. Rearrange your workspace.
Bring something cheerful into your studio. Flowers, a colourful throw, a companion animal.
4. Give yourself a treat.
Being in a funk is sometimes a way of saying you're sorry for yourself. So be kind to yourself. Have a beauty treatment, buy a book, light a candle and soak in a bubble bath.
5. Eat, sleep and talk
Eat healthy, sleep enough, and maintain an
exercise routine. Visit a friend or spend time with your partner. When I become irritable and weepy it's often because
my healthy living regime has become scrambled by stressors, or I've been spending too much time in my own company. It is a
vicious circle. The more unhappy I am, the more I eat junk, don't
sleep and isolate myself from people, the more unhappy I become.
6. Pen and paper
I pour out pages and pages of all the petty things that destroy my calm. Writing it down really gets it out of my system! And while you're writing, make a to-do list. A plan of action is a good way to get moving again.
7. Take random pictures.
Looking through a camera is looking
at the world with different eyes.
8. Fast or Feast on technology
Check how much time you spend on the Internet and social media. Sometimes taking a break from my computer entirely for a few days helps. Other times I need stimulation and browse on Pinterest for hours at a time. Whatever works, make it a conscious decision to do that, don't just act from habit.
I save these for really stubborn periods of being stuck in a funk.
9. Change of scenery
Take a trip. Move your body and your mind into a completely different space. Sometimes a holiday really is needed, not a luxury.
10. Do something new
Build a kit. Enrol in an online course. Take a dancing lesson, cookery lesson, learn to play a musical instrument. Try something different from what you usually do.
And while I'm doling out advice:
#TipOfTheDay
Operating mechanical equipment while distracted can have unexpected consequences.
Don't turn on your electric toothbrush in midair.